A lot of parents ask us the same question: “When should I bring my child to the dentist for the first time?” It’s not when they have a full set of baby teeth. And it’s definitely not when something hurts. The American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry recommends that a child has their first dental visit by their first birthday, or within six months after their first tooth appears. Whichever comes first.
At TotallySmiles, we welcome children of all ages. Dr. Steven started caring for young smiles back in 1973, and Dr. Corey has been doing the same since 2007. Between the two of them, our team has seen thousands of kids through their very first dental visit. Here’s what you need to know.

Why So Early?
You might think baby teeth aren’t that important. They fall out anyway, right? But those first teeth are actually doing a lot of work. They help your child chew food, speak clearly, and hold space for the permanent teeth that are growing underneath.
Starting early also helps your child get comfortable with our office. We want their first few visits to feel easy and even fun. That way, they don’t grow up feeling nervous about the dentist.
What Happens at a First Visit?
For a toddler or a young child, the first appointment is short and simple. We usually do what we call a “lap exam.” Your child sits on your lap and leans back onto ours. We take a quick look at their teeth and gums, count any teeth that have come in, and check for early signs of trouble.
We also take time to answer your questions. Things like:
- Is it okay for my baby to fall asleep with a bottle?
- When should we start brushing?
- Is thumb sucking a problem?
There’s no pressure. No scary tools. Just a gentle introduction to our team.
How to Prepare Your Child
Keep it positive. Talk about the dentist like it’s a normal and helpful thing, not something to fear. You can read a picture book about going to the dentist or simply tell them we are going to “count their teeth and give them a high-five.” Avoid words like “shot,” “drill,” or “hurt.” We don’t use those either.
What About Older Kids?
Once your child is a little older, we add more to the visit. We start taking digital X-rays, doing thorough cleanings, and applying fluoride to help protect against cavities. We also teach them how to brush and floss properly. Our goal is to build good habits that stick with them for life.
A Note on Dental Anxiety
Some kids feel nervous no matter what you do. That’s completely normal. We are patient, and we never push a child past what they are ready for. Sometimes that means we only do part of the exam on the first visit. That’s okay. We can always try again next time.
From Our Family to Yours
We treat patients from Gaithersburg, Rockville, Germantown, Potomac, and all across Montgomery County. Many of the families we see started coming to us when their children were barely walking. Now those same kids are teenagers with healthy, confident smiles.
Your child’s first dental visit doesn’t have to be a big deal. But starting early is one of the best things you can do for their long-term oral health.
If your little one is ready for their first checkup, or if you’re not sure whether it is time yet, give us a call at 301-701-5861. We would love to meet your family.